I also can offer my perspective as a soccer official. I have had the pleasure of being an official
for 7 years now, and it has been a rewarding experience. I started officiating with Olivia when she
was 11, which was a great way to bond with her.
I was able to run a line for her in her last game this past spring, a
state cup game at Pacesetter. Yes, I
cried.
I think the most rewarding aspect of officiating is working
with the kids. I try to make each game
an enjoyable experience for the kids, and myself. I enjoy the open communication the
players. I love to crack a joke or 2 at
lighter moments in a game. I’m human
too, sometimes the kids forget that! I’m
there for them, not me or anyone else.
When I stop enjoying the kids, I’ll be done.
I have learned much from fellow referees about soccer over
the years, as well as learning from coaches and players. I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to
work many higher level games, including a state final in 2013 with Doug
Billerman. This year I worked a
State-semi final with Andy Martin. I
could not have done that without working with and learning from all the great
officials in West Central Ohio. It was a
great experience that I hope some of the other officials in our association get
to have someday as well.
I’ve had my share of tough games, but I’ve had more than my
share of truly enjoyable moments as an official. It is great to show up at a game and see
friends. I love that! Of course, some of the friends may groan when
I show up too, lol. At least they know
what to expect!! As much as I loved
watching my kids play, and as much as I enjoy being an official, in the end, I
am grateful for all the friendships I have been able to make through soccer
over the years. I am also grateful for
the time I was able to spend with Nicole and Olivia along the way these past 17
years. Without Nicole and Olivia, none
of this would have been possible!!